When tying yourself or tying with others, please always remember to be risk aware.
Do you have consent? Please remember that sexual touch/intention ALWAYS requires clear and specific consent prior to tying/being tied.
Are you under the influence of any mind, body, or mood altering substances, or in anyother form of altered state? Please play sober!
Have you negotiated?
Are all boundaries clearly defined?
Are safe-words agreed upon and understood by all parties? Please remember that Emotional Safe Words are extremely useful for all rope play participants.
Is your phone within reach?
Do you have an emergency contact plan/person?
Do you have safety shears/cutters within reach?
Safety check-ins... Who is responsible? What frequency will check-ins be made?
Have you eaten recently?
Are you hydrated?
Do you know your capacity limits?
Never leave a person tied and unattended!
Make sure that you will not get hungry or thirsty but also that you won't need to use the bathroom.
Set Yourself Up For Success
Remember to go slow. Self-exploration is a great start!
When tying with a partner, make sure that consensual and intentional steps are being taken. Rope is a wonderfulenhancement tool, but please remember that there is no rush. Enjoy the time you have set aside with yourself and/or your partner(s) and remember that feeling rushed or flustered will likely take away from these special moments.
You don't need to know complicated patterns in order to enjoy rope! Guide the rope around the body and enjoy the sensation... no knots or friction required!
Have you prepared your space? Lighting? Music? Hydration & Snacks? Are you free of potential interruptions?
What energy are you bringing to the table? Remember that Rope is a tool that can be used as an extension and expression of yourself.
